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Are you wondering about setting boundaries with your adult children? Parenting your adult child sounds like an oxymoron. The two really shouldn't go together,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but they often do. There is an epidemic of children eighteen years and older (even much older) that still require involvement from their parents in their lives and want support in the form of a place to live, money, training,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and emotional energy. This requires a plan and an understanding of the ways adult children should be parented. Here are five ways God wants you to parent your adult child:
3. The relationship needs to be mutually respectful. This means that your child listens to your concerns, speaks respectfully to you,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], interacts with you,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and uses language you find acceptable. It means that you treat your child like an adult and listen to his/her concerns, speak respectfully, and don't get into business that should be private. God wants all of us to treat each other with respect and honor (1 Peter 2:17).
1. Everything you do needs to be with the goal of increasing independence rather than fostering dependence. It isn't easy for most eighteen year olds to move out on their own and be self-supporting as well as pay for educational or vocational training. Parental support can be a good thing, as long as it is working toward independence rather than fostering dependence. If you give any help to your son or daughter that is making it easier for them to start a career, it is positive and good. This is God's plan for you to raise children who become independent and healthy adults who make wise choices (Proverbs 22:6).
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5. Reward success and don't reward laziness. Your child needs to experience the positive benefits of succeeding. Good grades in college mean you pay for more college classes. A responsible child who is working toward a degree, a career, and an independent life by being involved in some sort of educational or vocational training and is working hard might deserve for you to give some extra cash to lighten the load. This child should get more support from you than the child that is doing almost nothing. Unfortunately,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it typically works the opposite with parents giving more to the child who is lazy. God doesn't honor laziness and even goes as far as to say that someone who doesn't work shouldn't eat (2 Thessalonians 3:10).
2,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Your son or daughter needs to be responsible for his or her own irresponsibility. This way your parenting shifts from punishment and deciding to impose consequences to letting your child experience the results of his/her own decisions. This means that you never bail your child out when bad decisions are made,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. You wouldn't pay overdue credit cards,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. You wouldn't pay for traffic tickets or accidents. You wouldn't pay late fees. You wouldn't pay for lost items. You wouldn't pay for dropped college classes. This supports God's law of reaping what you sow (Galatians 6:7- .
If you set boundaries with your adult children these five ways that God wants you to parent, then you will be increasing the likelihood that you will soon be out of a job. Ultimately, that is God's plan for you and your adult son or daughter.
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My advice is always be authentically you – and if you are not sure who that is, go on the discovery journey and find out.
Recently, I received a call from a woman and her belief is that she is too old. She is turning 70 this year, and has been advised to lie on her online profiles. She does not feel right doing this and asked me for my advice.
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I know that men (and women) are limiting their searches to age and that is unfortunate. Age does not define who you are. I know more people in their 80’s who are more vital than people in their 50’s. Stop searching for statistics, and start searching for qualities,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], values,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and a match that is real.
It is more important that you reach a place of acceptance and grace with your age. Once you are alignment with you age and your valuable, unique personality, your vibration will raise and you WILL begin to attract more people who accept you and find you just as attractive as you feel!
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As police roll out their nationwide campaign against online rumors, experts have urged relevant departments to offer more details of cases being investigated, insisting that the process of tackling rumors should also be transparent.
Beijing police confirmed with Sina Weibo, China's largest micro- blog service, on Sunday that journalist Liu Hu has been detained on allegations of criminal fabrication and dissemination of rumors online. Liu works for Xinkuaibao, a local media company in Guangdong province.
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This scenario is not uncommon. Probably 30% of my business clients are struggling with at least one particular individual that is a thorn in their side. They question their own sanity and the sanity of those who put the Harrys of the world in those positions. What do you do?
What is it you are here to learn that has Harry be in your life, in this time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in this way?
Answer this question and you’ll understand what it is you need to shift in order to facilitate the learning. I guarantee that while doing what’s required in order to make the shift, you’ll notice that Harry will either change or go away! It’s fascinating to observe what changes within our environment once we get our part in maintaining it as it has been.
By the way, some of the Harry’s of the world are my clients too. Given an opportunity to look at what has them choose to choose to be how they be,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they, too, willingly shift in support of a larger, more fulfilling outcome. Yey for us all!
My job as a transformational coach is not to fix, heal or convert clients, so they’ll have the answers to problems that they face. My job is to be a thinking partner, empowering clients to unravel all of the complexities that are bringing him or her to this dilemma and this choice-point.
You and a colleague,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Harry are up for a promotion. You know you are the better person for the job,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but Harry got the position. He’s pompous, arrogant and doesn’t have the leadership skills that inspire you to generate, well, anything. You scratch your head in disbelief that he was chosen over you.
For some reason, even though the whole office knows of Harry’s incompetence,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], no one seems to take action. He’s that one rotten apple that spoils the whole barrel.
Our businesses systems are no different than our family systems, in that they are generated and driven by survival mechanisms that most likely operate from a fear-based paradigm. They have been cultivated through generations of personal relationships based on cultural,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], religious, gender and racial factors. Too often wisdom and common sense do not enter into the equation when it comes to how a business or family is operating. We take for granted and assume intelligence and maturity would be foundational to choosing directors,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], managers and leaders, but trust me, and you may know from your own experience, most people running businesses, departments and corporations function, to some degree, from the emotional intelligence of an adolescent. It makes sense that you are going to think you are smarter than your boss; in some ways you probably are; in other ways you probably aren’t.
Do you stay or do you go? Do you ask to get transferred? Do you stay and suck it up, because you need the job? Do you try to go around Harry, or do you do what you do best and ignore what Harry wants from you?
Entangled and embroiled in the cauldron of complexity of our work environment, its challenging to see all of this without a thinking partner or coach who can hold the bigger picture and who also holds you accountable for your participation in the unfolding of your life within this bigger picture. No coach or thinking partner? That’s okay. Just be willing to be truthful in answering the questions above. This alone will create a positive shift for you; and the Harry’s of the world will go POOF!
If you go above Harry’s head to his boss, Glenda, you might be not only aggravate Harry but also be making it clear to Glenda that she may have made a choice that is creating negative consequences far beyond any expectations. She’s already regretting her choice and knows there’s nothing she can do.
The questions funnel down to just one:
Part of you, perhaps wants to sabotage Harry’s efforts and do whatever you can to expose him for the inadequate, incompetent individual that you see him to be; however,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that goes against your integrity,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and you may end up looking bad and feeling worse in the end.
The trick is to notice this pattern of operating. When you’re feeling smarter than – what’s the quality of the experience? Are you feeling righteous and arrogant, contemptuous and condescending? Do you feel frustrated and discouraged? What actions are you likely to take from righteous, condescending, frustrated and discouraged? What do you do to compensate for feeling this way? How do you avoid, distract,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], ignore or deny your own part in this dysfunctional process? By the way, we are all participating in having the Harry’s of the world be where they are.
There are a lot of Harry’s and Harriets in the business world. As an administrative assistant, manager or whatever your position, you know you are smarter than your boss. You deserve his salary and every perk that goes along with his position,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], because you are working your butt off and he’s the one that is looking good! AAARRRGGHH!
Notice the Pattern
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3) Mail Monday. Make Monday your day to go through mail that has piled up (as it so easily does) then pay the bills immediately so they are out of your mind. If you need to book an appointment,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], book it right away or at least put the task to book the appointment on your “To Do List” for tomorrow (if you choose to do this in the evening). You could even take this further and make Mondays,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], “Mexican Mondays”. Because most Mexican dishes are quick to make,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you could come home, deal with the mail, then know you have a simple Mexican meal to whip up in only 10-15 minutes. Think,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], quesadillas,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], tacos, burritos, quinoa salads with roasted vegetables and goat cheese, taco salads, rice and beans,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], stuffed peppers…the list is endless!
I know I was shocked at just how much laundry an extra little being could produce. Then I had my second child and couldn’t believe how the laundry quadrupled! As with everything I do, I took a look at the situation and found a better, more simple, (and of course, stress- free) way to take care of the mountain of laundry my family accumulates each week.
Have you ever walked down to the basement, saw piles of laundry in the corner of your eye, felt a pit in your stomach at how behind you are then tried to forget about it so you didn’t have to feel overwhelmed anymore? This is a common story that working moms talk to me about; it’s their “nemesis”.
1) Washing Wednesday. After dinner, your hubby puts the kids to bed and does dishes while you get to work on the “washing” (aka laundry). With most machines, you should be able to get at least 3 loads washed, dried and folded by the end of the night. Make it fun for yourself. Put on some great music or your favourite TV show. You could even get out your novel and read between cycles! Be creative here so that you actually ENJOY when “Washing Wednesday” comes around!
We all have 24 hours in a day. We can either race around resenting everything we have to do or choose to find better ways and just go with the flow. We have the ability to design our lives. Design yours with this fun technique and you’ll be sure to live life more like you want,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
One of the things I did was come up with cute names for certain days and attach a job or activity to it. For example, I loved humour and it really bonded us as a class (The kids loved it when I would laugh so hard I’d cry) so I created a day called,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], “Witty Wednesday”. Throughout the week the kids would bring in jokes they had either found or heard, wrote them down and placed the paper in our “Witty Wednesday” basket. On Wednesday, during the last 10 minutes of class we would sit on the carpet together and I would pull 5-7 jokes out of the basket. The child would read it and we’d either try to answer the joke or just listen to it. It was one thing the kids always said they loved best about our year together.
Now,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], how can you bring this into your home,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], not only to help with laundry, but with other tasks as well? Here are some suggestions. Feel free to make up your own and if you think they’re brilliant, please write me as I always LOVE to hear the ideas of others.
The point with all of this is that there is no way around doing laundry and other household tasks (unless you have a full time maid), so why resist? Do them in a fun way! Better yet, get the family in on the game! Just be sure to do these tasks in a fun and enjoyable way.
2) Tub and Toilet Tuesdays. Why not make Tuesday one of your children’s bath days (No, you don’t have to bathe your children every night. Just wash their hands and face and save the big clean ups for a few days during the week) While your kiddies are enjoying their play time in the bath, you could clean the toilet (and sink if you like). Then, after you’ve scrubbed the kids, get your hubby to get their pyjamas on while you clean the bathtub. You can swap these roles so he cleans the tub and you dress the kids,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], whichever suits you.
When thinking about how I could solve my problem my thoughts wandered back to the classroom when I was a teacher,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. I had systems and organizational routines put into place so that the classroom and our life inside it ran like a well-oiled machine.
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One aspect of being an executive coach that I love is that I’m in a sense a leader’s leader. I hold the bigger picture for my executive clients to live into. I give them a bigger bandwidth within which to experience themselves, their organization and the role they intend to play. I empower them to make the leap and while in the leap experience the transition from who they thought they were to who they are becoming. This noticing of what it’s like to be in the leap – noticing the various muscles that are used to engage, maintain and complete the leap is also an aspect of the Bigger Picture that we don’t think about when we ask our direct reports to shift or change their context in order to also see and act from the Big Picture.
The Life Guard Analogy:
Director of a Play Analogy:
Moments of Transcendence
In the business environment, getting the Bigger Picture is what Alon is wanting of his new CFO,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Chantal; and it’s what she want from the manager, Marko, who she is hiring next week; and, it’s what Alon’s manager is wanting from him, too. Do these individuals have the capacity to see the Bigger Picture and then make leadership decisions that will support what is desired for all?
Peter’s corollary states that “in time, every post tends to be occupied by an employee who is incompetent to carry out their duties” and adds that “work is accomplished by those employees who have not yet reached their level of incompetence.” “Managing upward” is the concept of a subordinate finding ways to subtly “manage” superiors in order to limit the damage that they end up doing.
Enjoy the adventure!
The bigger the picture you can hold the more valuable you are to your company and organization
Seeing the Big Picture; what the heck does that mean? What requires one to see the big picture? And, what dilemma becomes apparent when considering the leap? “The Leap?” you might ask. Why would it take a leap?
With the Peter Principle in mind then, one perhaps rises to their ability to see the Bigger Picture and then be able to act with competence, fulfilling their duties. It takes commitment and a capacity to expand one’s reality. What are you willing to practice in service to seeing the Bigger Picture and perhaps meet your incompetence? Every great leader must face this exquisite and essential moment of reckoning. And, if they can learn from the experience they have a great capacity to empower others to do the same.
Until Chantal was hired as the CFO, it didn’t occur to her that she would need to operate differently from the way she had been working just months ago. Most of us take our Operating Procedure Manual(OPM) with us to the next level of leadership only to find that we are drained by juggling what we’ve been doing with the requirement of working as if you are holding the Bigger Picture; before you even know what that means. Chantal realized that in order to fulfill her roles as the CFO she’s got to let go of her limiting OPM and take the leap.
One distinction of a good leader is that they are willing to risk the scathing, the failures, and the vulnerability because they are able to see from a bigger picture that these potential risks serve the Bigger Picture. They are committed to this bigger picture enough. Without the ability to see the bigger picture they would not have the level of fearlessness required to make those hard choices.
If I’m a lifeguard, I’m less likely to see anyone in distress if I’m in the pool swimming around with the rest of the swimmers. I have to be up above the pool in order to get more of a bird’s eye view; this way I can see much more activity and take actions more quickly.
The dilemma, which will surely arise is that we are generally committed to maintaining the level of comfort and invulnerability within which we don’t feel threatened and are in jeopardy of losing respect or losing face. In order to let go of the trapeze bar of one level of functioning in order to swing to and grasp another, you have to be committed enough to let go of what no longer serves. Some of us aren’t willing to do this unless we know that there is a secure and well-placed safety net below that will catch us unscathed if we do fall.
I can’t tell you the number of times over that past few weeks that I’ve heard the term seeing the big picture. I pay attention when something is said two or more times; there’s something to be mined for myself and perhaps for others,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Everyone of us who aspires to something greater than our current fishbowl, our current job, position, role, or level of responsibility has to risk this moment of vulnerability and failure. What makes a good leader and someone who is more likely to get promoted over and over again is the willingness to jump out of the fishbowl, out of the pool, off the stage,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in order to see the Bigger Picture from which to lead far more effectively.
If I’m a director of a play, I’d not be able to see the whole representation or gestalt of a scene if I were on stage directing amid the characters. Seated off stage in the audience or even in the balcony I can see the bigger picture of how the actors engage with each other, the lighting,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the set design, the sound quality: I can see things I wouldn’t be able to if I didn’t set myself apart to view get the Big Picture.
The Fishbowl Analogy:
Quite often we have moments of lucidity, where we get the big AH-HA! However,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], this moments of transcendence dissolve back into are reality that we call normal. Exercising the muscles of awareness through noticing, which constantly nudges one to stay awake and aware,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], is required for most of us to truly shift our paradigm to include this next level of the Bigger Picture.
It’s challenging to pop out of your current fishbowl or context in order to see the Bigger Picture. Again, like a fish,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we don’t know that there is a reality outside the fishbowl within which we are immersed. We say “What Fishbowl? What Bigger Picture?” It’s not that we are ignorant, it’s that rarely is there a context that allows us to get that there is a Bigger Picture to see.
I’ll give you a number of analogies that might be helpful:
We are all immersed in a paradigm and reality,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], much like a fish in the water it swims in. A fish can’t distinguish itself from this water, just as most of us don’t distinguish ourselves from our thoughts, emotions and body sensations; just as most of us don’t distinguish ourselves from the work, roles and details we’ve been attending to, without considering the value of our contribution, the degree of fulfillment, toxicity or dysfunction we may contribute to,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and the productivity gained from a business or financial perspective.
Rising to the level of incompetence
Like the woman on the flying trapeze, Chantal will have to let go of a known way of viewing the world. She’ll have to operate from a different and larger perspective,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which requires a letting go of the known for the unknown. She’ll be surrendering her invulnerability,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and the survival mechanism she developed,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that worked well enough to avoid vulnerability. Like all of us, Chantal wants to avoid that moment when she meets the “I don’t know how to make that leap without possibly falling on my face and looking like a complete fool and failure.”
Formulated by Dr. Laurence J. Peter and Raymond Hull, the Peter Principle states that “in a hierarchy, every employee tends to rise to his level of incompetence,” meaning that employees tend to be promoted until they reach a position at which they cannot work competently.
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Mutual respect, understanding and support are the most precious wealth in the China-ASEAN relations, Xi said, noting that China will stick firmly to the path of peaceful development.
The president said China will continue to foster good-neighborliness and partnership with ASEAN countries to consolidate the strategic partnership.
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Most individuals are intimidated by successful people and they don't know how to talk to them. Which is why they often avoid them, thus missing great opportunities in their life.
Don't be afraid to tell a successful person that you appreciate their work or their achievements, if that is true. Even if they've heard it a million times, they'll still enjoy it if it's genuine.
I want to show you based on my coaching experience how to talk to successful people successfully and clear this issue once and for all.
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But don't say this in a weak, needy way. Remain calm and have poise when doing this. Appreciation shown with dignity and confidence has much more value than appreciation shown with visible nervousness.
The other thing is to not waste successful people's time. These individuals tend to be particularly busy and although they may be willing to give you some of their time, it's important to not squander it.
So for the most part, talking to successful people is the same as talking to regular people. Try to not think of a successful person differently than you would think of your grandma, or your next door neighbor. And talk to them from this mindset.
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We often think that in order to look professional we need to incorporate stock photos or use super sophisticated language. However, eye movement research shows that we do not notice stock photos, but pay attention to real images; and that we connect much stronger when we participate in the online conversation that is real and simple. Therefore:
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This means that no matter what you are trying to do online, whether you run a blog, sell a product, or even just hold a conversation on a social media platform such as Twitter or Facebook, showing that you care for your audience you will help build your credibility.
#1 Reveal your Human Side
#3 Protect your customers’ privacy
Twitter feeds go fast and sometimes we overlook opportunities to capture what people are saying about us. Periodically look at you @mentions on Twitter. This will show you the list of people who are talking about you. Anytime you see a positive comment about your work on Facebook or in an email, take a screen shot. You can always add those to your website or sales page.
For example, for my Teach and Prosper Boot Camp ( I collected video reviews from my former students that help my future customers understand the value of this course.
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Create an about page that helps people learn more about you as a human, not just a title or a list of accomplishments
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Trust can either make or break your online business,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], your online teaching, or your online job search. How do YOU rate when it comes to credibility and trust online? In this 7 min video I am going to give you 5 tips that will help you build trust online and boost your credibility.
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A very famous business guru Guy Kawasaki believes that in order to be trustworthy, you need to be trusting first. Companies that understand this principle succeed. For example, Amazon allows you to read Kindle books for 5 days, and lets you return the book for your money back at any time during that 5 day period. You can easily read a book in 5 days,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but Amazon is not worried about that. You must be willing to give what you want to receive. So step out of your scarcity mentality. The universe is an abundant place. Give trust, and you shall receive it back!
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There are some interesting theories around building trust online. A noteworthy idea is presented by Graham Jones, who developed the credibility pyramid. It is worth noting that according to this pyramid your actual knowledge accounts for only 10% of your credibility,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], while care and concern account for 50%. It is curious because my personal research on DL shows that the #1 factor that contributes to students’ satisfaction online is the care and concern shown by their teacher…Coincidence? Hardly!
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Being the lion-king, they love the limelight and are bold and lively. Partners therefore need to give them a lot of attention and affection to keep them happy.
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The impulsive twins. Geminis are very fickle minded and playful. Because of this, they can be very inconsistent with their decisions in life. Geminis are best paired with people who can put up with such fickle mindedness and can keep up with their energy.
Marriage life is not always as blissful as many wish it to be. This is because you are basically two different people with different minds. One good way that you can assure a more harmonious life together is by understanding your partner's nature and dispositions, what keeps him ticking and what his passions in life are. So read on and learn about their good and bad points by their zodiac signs.
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Libra
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Most of the time, you may not end up with partners that are compatible with your zodiac signs. But what is most important is the decision to stick it out through the thick and the thin no matter where life takes you both.
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Arians are symbolized by the battering ram. By nature, they are strong willed and very dynamic. They are often very impulsive and can charge through decisions without thinking twice.
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The main takeaway for you here is that possessing a positive attitude helps a lot in successfully getting a girlfriend because a girl will link many aspects of a successful relationship to a positive attitude. So before you go out and try getting your dream girl, start changing your attitude first!
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A positive and confident attitude reflects self-respect. It will have a direct impact on how people view you, and how they feel when they hang out with you.
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1. A male and female co-mediation team approach to divorce mediation addresses the needs and concerns of each party and the couple as a whole.
I mediate with my partner. We provide a male - female co mediation model of mediation to our clients. By having a male and female mediator (neutral) present - the mediation process is gender balanced. Men and women think differently, act differently and feel differently. A male and female mediation team sitting across from a divorcing couple interact with each and with the couple in a way that makes known to the couple that these differences are okay, should be acknowledged and respected. This mediation model allows the couple to be in a neutral setting, while instilling in each of them a feeling of safety in airing their concerns, issues,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], hopes and fears. The airing of these concrete and not so concrete points promotes a more well thought out and detailed agreement.
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4. A male and female co-mediation model sets an example for the divorcing couple
A male and female mediator working together for and with a couple demonstrate to the couple that although maneuvering through the divorce process can be difficult in so many ways, it can be done in a respectful way with an eye toward the end in mind. Mutual interests are identified and each person is given equal air time to voice their concerns without interruption by the other. The male and female mediators working together compliment each other. Two sets of ears are better than one, it makes certain all concerns voiced are heard and acknowledged. Each mediator has strengths and weaknesses. By each of us working together,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we make for a great mediation team and an incredible benefit to the divorcing couple.
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Often times, my partner and I take on different tasks during the mediation. He may ask prelimary questions for example: what does each party want to get out of the mediation,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], where and how do they see themselves and their family unit (if children are involved) in 3 years, 5 years,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], 10 years etc... ,are there any hot topics or immediate concerns that they feel need to be addressed right away. By tackling immediate concerns soon after beginning the mediation process it diffuses the difficult and often emotional situation. It provides the couple with a feeling that progress is being made. While my partner is asking these questions, I will write their responses on a white board so that each party can see their response and the response of their spouse. Sometimes seeing things puts them in perspective. Also, repeating and clarifying what the couples say and capturing their feelings about issues keeps everyone involved in the mediation process on the same page.
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Once again, may Lord bless soul of Muammar Gaddafi’ rest in silent’s and in peace until day of Judgements?
We nation Muslims never seen dream nor ever heard of any fairly tail from our great grand mother second to none Bagdad, Iraq, The British and U.S.A. Made graveyard in history,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in Islam. Hozrot Boro Peer,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Abdul Kadir Zillani, (R.A),[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and his appointed Religious Representatives is crying for Justice against none-Believers.
In the name Lord Jesus Christ, “He-Sa-Ru-Hu-Lul-La-He”—(R.A), and his beloved Father Kingdom those who says other than Allah. Wake up House of Kabba, Imam. With your own Muslims Leaders, Kings, Prime Ministers,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Brothers, and Sisters before it to late to regrets in life of Muslims in this world.
The guilty Prime Minister those who claims will never ‘RULE’ almost 40 year in written history of Middle East to be a States Leaders must have shadow of almighty Lord, to rule Kingdom of almighty domiciles, The Innocent leader of the States were assassinated by mistakenly, without, tablet, ‘Seroxat’ or “Zyprexa” to be taken Five Times a Days, under the misjudgements of knowledge and or lack of understanding in their own Culture in politics’.
By author Abdul Haye Amin.
Why Islamic Muslims, country, Leaders, King, and or Prime Ministers end their precious life when they should be honoured by own peoples?
“Bis-Mil-La-Hir-Rak-Ma-Nir-Ra-Him”
Today I my self fears of nothing different to writes in second to wastes times in writing against Libya. There is no ink to writes or there is nothing remains in thought after Iraq War. Probably Kingdom of Saudia Arabia, House of Lord, The Kings, or Prime Ministers, never knew the meaning of Holy Bible Sura Fathia?
Where at the time of Prophet Mohammad, (Saw) never given ‘None-Believers’ any rights to Kingdom of Lord., to step with own feet’s in land of Almighty. Today Muslims Leaders are proud of Foreign Leaders. To end their own life as ‘Muammar Gaddafi?’
When ‘United Nation nor ‘Human Rights’ Foreign Diplomatic ‘Guru Rakal’ never heard of Arabic sentence;
The Peoples of Libya may mistakenly celebrate victory of death of Gaddafi and dance with foreign Diplomatic aids but after all Libyan your own country, your own soil, under your own feet invaded by Foreign Diplomatic force to remove your own brother, [.................................] from the power will you be safe but not agree?
Under the western interference far from western country to Middle East, the second to none Holy land of Almighty Lord, Kingdom of Saudia Arabia, Ruled by Friends of Allah,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the nation claimed ‘Mad and Crazy’ ‘Mohammad’—(Saw).
Hero of Middle East ‘Muammar Gaddafi's’ Death?
May almighty Lord bless his soul who died for his own blood of peoples and for the own country, Libya. Died under the hand of enemy as a first Prime Minister of East Pakistan,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Bongo Bandhu, Sheikh Mujibul Rahman, and the former Prime minister of Bangladesh not cause of natural death. According to Islamic Muslims reference is known “HERO” in the day of (Kiamot), Judgements. Regardless of what media News agency story spread through out the nation. In the afternoon worthless ‘Newspaper’ under the public feet’s?
whose name without known seed or inks written “Mo-Ham-Ma-Dur-Ra-Su-Lul-La-“—(Saw), today prescribed in the European country, E.E.C. forest, Germany, Bonn, City, German, Today none Islamic Muslims Country to spoil the Islamic Muslims traditional way of life, today is not surprised our Libya Prime Minister, ‘Muammar Gaddafi,’ Bongo Bandhu, Shirkh Mujubul Rahman, Mathma Gandhi, Bin Laden, or the Prime Minister of Iraq, Saddam Hussain, under the hand of own peoples taken precious life.
Before “Sub-Han-Na-Rabbi-Al-Alla” nation heard of sound of romantic love songs “Allahu Akbar” from miles a way in Sylhet District, Bangladesh but never heard of sound of “Sub-Han-Na-Rabbi-Al-Alla”
My regard, Love and Salam remain those who Islamic Muslims Leaders respect the order of the almighty Lord and Holy Saints, Hozrot Boro Peer, Abdul Kadir Zillani, (R.A). Before House of Kabba, Building falls into House of Kabba, Imam Head.
The true Muslim’s Leaders, Kings or Prime Ministers, those who pay the States ‘Fresh Green Salat’ (Namaj/Worship/ Ritual/Act) Five Time a day, under any circumstances, will never accept (The Holy Bible Quran: Sura Fathia). The none-Believers, the Foreign Diplomatic interference in the Islamic Muslims Country, no matter how wealth or Rich country is? But seek refuge in the name of almighty Lord, Allah for his guidance as in history,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Prophet, Baby Mosa, (Mose), Ibrahim, and or Solomon.
...Is Western non-Muslims, Leaders, Kings,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Prime Ministers, going to tell Muslims, Leaders, kings, Prime Ministers, Brothers and Sisters in Islam how to govern or to Rule the ‘Islamic’ ‘Muslims’ Country?
No matter how he or she ever died in this temporary world of lust is almighty Lord gifts was given to share his beloved Kingdoms no one ever has given any rights to take life unless other wise Stated in the Law of Holy Bible Quran.
Have we forgotten history of Isla--m? Second to non in history in Islam after ‘Mo-Ham-Ma-Dur-Ra-Ru-Lul-La’ – (Saw), Hozrot Boro Peer, Abdul Kadir Zillani, (R.A),[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], country, Iraq, city of Bagdad, made ‘NIL DARIAR PREM’ the oceans out of Islamic Brothers and Sisters own bloods by whom?
41 years was not fake dream in the Land of domicile Kingdom of Libya to Rule by ‘Muammar Gaddafi’ to none believer it was their dream in the name of ‘LGBT’ regulations of Law? Today Libya own peoples approved by their actions by assassinating own Prime Minister chosen by members of public’s and was known by the nation as ‘HERO’ around the world. No one ever dare to say a word against Today Street of Libya dancing in the name of “WHAT?”
In their entire Diplomatic life to enter the Domiciles Land of “He-Sa-Ru-Hu-Lul-La-He” beloved those who says Father other than [Allah] Kingdom, the Islamic Muslims Country. Or to Instruct Islamic Muslim’s Institutions to ‘Rule or to Govern’ the Islamic Muslim’s States or country.
Untied Nation or ‘Human Right?’
When will House of Kabba, the Imam the King going to be next to give lesson as ‘Muammar Gaddafi’ failure to maintain Sura Fathia, and Allah Kingdom. Or to form own ‘Islamic Muslims Nation’ there should be no Foreign None Believer ever to interfere land of Muslims country, and Muslim’s peoples.
After almost 41 one years in the land of almighty Lord as a ‘Leader’ of the own country, second to non in the nation to rule as a ‘LIBYA’ in the Middle East the Prime Minister of Libya, ‘Muammar Gaddafi’ died, “Inna-Lila-He-O-Inna-He-Lai-He-Ra-Je-Own”
The Islamic Muslims Leaders, Kings,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and Prime Ministers prove your self by shown the nation as ‘Muammar Gaddafi’ body return to Foreign Diplomatic, None Believers, of Lord [Allah] Rulers and or country Leaders, without, compromised, by any mean. Until price of Iraq, Baghdad paid in full.
My due not credit but priceless beyond reach recitation of ‘Durud –O- Salam’ will ‘Saya Dul Mur Sa In’-Angle or Firista convey as ‘Visual hallucination’ to the Prophet Mohammad, -(Saw), [Parliament] as mentioned, for the Leader those who died due to mistaken beliefs.(Delusion). And or due to tablet ‘Zyprexa or ‘Seroxat’ and May we never face in our life as ‘Tsunami 2004’ disaster in the nation. Nothing was remain to treasure in love other than only ‘Medical Centre’, the ‘Mosque’ to prescribed tablet Seroxat or Zyprexa in the Land of Japan,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], ‘Tsunami 2004?
When your leader never was found any salvation from none? After almost 41 years as a Libya Leader of Prime Minister age of 69 any time his M.O.T. was about to expire but died in the hand of own Libyans peoples for what reasons after 41 years peoples of Libyans?
My heartfelt sympathy, families of ‘Muammar Gaddafi’ and Gaddafi remain those who are a life in this world of lust may almighty Lord secure their trust and life from tragedy as nation proud of out of ‘Muammar Gaddafi’ families and the country, once was most dear, as British Prime Minister, Tony Blair,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], shake hand in love as seen with Foreign smiles to conquer heart of Muslims Leaders in the Middle East.
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In an interview by "Biography" magazine (May 2001, page 97-99), the scientists made the following statements about the universal living memory theory.
As one who has experienced the searing loss of a loved one,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I have many times pondered about what happens when one dies. Questions I’ve asked include: does a soul go to “heaven” or somewhere else; can we still communicate with a person who has died,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], even though his/her physical body is gone; and are we being looked after by the souls (or angels) of our lost friend or family member? Although there are no definitive answers, evidence from different fields of study seem to point in the direction that our “beingingness” continues to exist after physical death.
This question may be looked at religiously, spiritually, and even scientifically. Let me lead you down the path of my search for the answer.
Whatever one’s religious bent, I find it difficult to believe in a vengeful God who seeks to either reward or punish. If we are all God’s creatures, He accepts us as we are – just as we accept our children, naughty or nice.
“If everything that comprises us—our brains,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], our eyes, our hearts—and all the complex information that defines us in the physical is contained as living information and energy just like the light in a star, then when our physical bodies deconstruct, the energy and the information that was living inside the cells continues in the same way that the light from the distant stars continues long after the physical star has “died.” When you physically depart,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the information and energy within your body is released.”
“Just like the light from distant stars extends into space and continues forever, the energy and information that comes from us and our bodies constantly generate electromagnetic information and energy. This information and energy not only continues, but it circulates in such a way that it is eternal and shows all the properties of life and evolution.”
It seems most everyone has an opinion on the subject of life after death, and the few ideas I’ve discussed barely scrape the surface when investigating this matter. Of course, it is an individual choice which concepts a person opts to accept or deny -- or perhaps it is more like a smorgasbord, and you can take a little from each school of thought to reach your own conclusion. Moreover, although I’ve wondered about this subject, I’m not in any particular hurry to find out the “real answer”!
Although most of what I’ve stated is conjecture, there does exist some empirical evidence to substantiate the theory of life after death –in particular, the near-death experience. There are many documented cases of people, despite being pronounced clinically dead, who report a continued consciousness or awareness of being. Each of these reports has much in common.
Giving additional weight to the theory that our spirits are still “alive” and living in another dimension,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], there are reports of many psychics and mediums who profess to be a conduit for deceased loved ones to send messages to the living. One such person is Rosemary Altea. Ms. Altea, author of "Proud Spirit", states “People seem to think we need the spirits because it assures us there is more than this life, but they need us just as much. They want us to know they are there to pass on things that will prepare us for death. We’re very important to them.”
A difference in religious beliefs seems to be at the center of world discordance today, as it has always been throughout the ages. At the heart of the problem is man’s conviction that if he is right, another must be wrong. Acceptance that there is more than one way and more than one answer is THE ANSWER in all areas of life.
When asked what would this theory suggest about life—or the survival of consciousness—after death, they replied:
This brings us to the topic of reincarnation, where theories abound. Again, it is difficult for me to believe that this life is the only one an individual soul will experience. In comparison to eternity, the blink of an eye that one spends in a single lifetime is so minute and inconsequential. This leads me to the conclusion that there must be more to a soul’s existence than his/her time on Earth. It also gives me great comfort to believe that my deceased loved ones’ souls may be watching over me, and,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], perhaps, I might see one of them in another incarnation during my present lifetime.
From a more spiritual viewpoint, I have always intuitively felt a universal force (call it what you will) surrounding us all. It’s not a force of good or evil, as some religions would have us believe, but one that is always present and one that always allows us the free will to choose our own path. And on this path, we must keep our senses open to the universe and accept that everything happens for a purpose. This allows one to realize that there are no coincidences. For example, when we encounter people whom we feel we’ve known forever, we most probably have – perhaps in another life or an alternative dimension.
Consider the thought that if a person has committed bad acts during a lifetime,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he/she simply gets to think about how he/she can do better next time – possibly in a subsequent lifetime.
At their inception, many religions created the concept of heaven vs hell. This was done, in part, to instill a “fear of God” in its followers, so they would lead a more righteous life in hope of a heavenly reward upon their demise. These religions would have us believe in an afterlife with a God who “punishes” those who do not lead a moral life. Other religions would have us believe nirvana in the afterlife is achieved by slaying one’s earthly enemies.
Is there life after death?
3. It is usually reported back that previously deceased family members met the spirit.
While some religions will have us believe simply in the importance of leading a “good” earthly life with no concern of an afterlife,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the precepts of a good majority of religions are based on the presumption that life continues after death.
1. They describe how, at the time of (near) death, the person’s spirit rose above its physical body,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and this spirit was able to observe mortals mourn his/her passing. The spirit eventually returns to the body, if it is not the time for it to leave its earthly body.
2. There is often a mention of a brilliant white light and a tunnel. To explain this “white light”, consider this explanation by Melinda Vail, the Southwest’s leading intuitive therapist.
“There is a thin line of energy running through the body called the Kundalini Energy. People who have had a Near Death Experience usually report moving through a tunnel or seeing a white light upon death. When a person dies,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the Kundalini Energy (the soul) is released and travels upward as a white light through the tunnel of its life support system (one’s body).”
To add to this preponderance of evidence, the study of quantum physics indicates there exists more than what we can see and touch. In 1999, Gary E.R. Schwartz, Ph.D. and Linda G.S. Russek,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Ph.D. wrote "The Living Energy Universe, A Fundamental Discovery That Transforms Science and Medicine." The book hypothesizes that there is a possibility of life after death. Both well-respected scientists and academicians (professors at University of Arizona in Tucson), they conducted double-blind and multi-centered experiments to prove their universal living memory theory.
If you want to read more information about Schwartz and Russek,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you may try the following links.
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